Are They Still Interested?
- May 25, 2022
- 1 min read
Updated: Jun 7, 2022
It's easy to fall into the trap of trying to influence a potential love interest to stay interested. We go above and beyond what we expect of ourselves. You can go so hard that it can come off as desperation. Look, rejection is hard but it is a part of life. If he/she/they pull away stop begging, but inquire about their withdrawal. If it's
a temporary, manageable situation, and something you can do, then go right ahead. But if your gut or higher (wise) self is telling you something is not right, then listen.
When an object of our desire pulls away, we are inclined to chase it. But this is not a balloon, but the foundation and direction of a possible partnership. I know this may be hard, but it might be something to try. We should match their energy and fall back. It's not petty, but it allows the person to see there is a discrepancy in the relationship. Also, it will give you a better perspective of your circumstances/situation by distancing yourself. You may not like them as much as you thought you did. Therefore, you no longer desire them and can move on if that is something you want to do.
Good luck!
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